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What does it mean?
Confession, not the priest, grants forgiveness.
In plain terms
Admitting wrongdoing gives you relief, not the religious figure.
What can you take from it?
Own your mistakes to find peace.

Where it applies

  • therapy
  • personal accountability
  • spiritual practice

Putting it to work

  • journaling
  • seeking honesty

Questions to consider

  • What role does confession play for you?
  • Do you need a third party for forgiveness?

Another view

Some find comfort in external absolution.

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