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About this quote

What does it mean?
Love inevitably leads to pain and sorrow when it ends or is lost.
In plain terms
If you avoid love, you avoid the sadness that comes with it.
What can you take from it?
Accept pain as part of loving deeply.

Where it applies

  • breakups
  • loss of loved ones
  • reflection on past relationships

Putting it to work

  • reflect on past loves
  • accept grief as natural

Questions to consider

  • What pain have you avoided to protect yourself?
  • Is avoiding pain worth missing love?

Another view

It assumes pain only comes from love, ignoring other sources of sorrow.

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