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There was always some kind of strain, but it was workable. The bigger you get, the more of a strain it is, because in your everyday life, you're less used to compromising. As you get bigger, you have your own way. But in a partnership you always have to compromise. ... When you get into a partnership, you're not the boss. There's no boss. That makes it hard.

Paul Simon#3

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About this quote

What does it mean?
The speaker notes that partnerships become harder as individuals gain more power and less tolerance for compromise.
In plain terms
Being successful makes it harder to compromise in relationships.
What can you take from it?
Compromise is essential in partnerships.

Where it applies

  • business ventures
  • marriage
  • leadership

Putting it to work

  • conflict resolution
  • leadership training

Questions to consider

  • How do you maintain balance in partnerships?
  • What sacrifices do you make for success?

Another view

It overlooks that success can sometimes improve flexibility.

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