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What does it mean?
The author observes that Japanese etiquette is so strict it can appear rude to outsiders.
In plain terms
Strict Japanese manners sometimes seem like rudeness.
What can you take from it?
Recognize that cultural politeness varies.

Where it applies

  • cross cultural interaction
  • travel
  • etiquette study

Putting it to work

  • learn local customs
  • avoid assumptions

Questions to consider

  • How do you judge rudeness?
  • Is there such a thing as too polite?

Another view

It simplifies complex social norms into a single observation.

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