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'Mustn't grumble' was the most English of expressions. English patience was mingled inertia and despair. What was the use? But Americans did nothing but grumble! Americans also boasted. 'I do some pretty incredible things' was not an English expression. 'I'm fairly keen' was not American. Americans were showoffs-it was part of our innocence-we often fell on our faces; the English seldom showed off, so they seldom looked like fools.

Paul Theroux#4

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About this quote

What does it mean?
The author contrasts English reserve and patience with American expressiveness and pride, noting strengths and weaknesses in both.
In plain terms
English people hide feelings while Americans show off more.
What can you take from it?
Balance reserve with authentic expression.

Where it applies

  • cross cultural comparison
  • national identity
  • social behavior

Putting it to work

  • observe cultural norms
  • check self expression

Questions to consider

  • Which culture do you identify with more?
  • Is boasting always bad?

Another view

It relies on broad national stereotypes that may not reflect individuals.

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