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After one of those terrible lovers' quarrels that leave one in a state of incomprehensible despair. I came out of the theater, tears streaming, and overheard the petulant voice of a college girl complaining to her boyfriend, 'Well I don't see what was so special about that movie.' I walked up the street, crying blindly, no longer certain whether my tears were for the tragedy on the screen, the hopelessness I felt for myself, or the alienation I felt from those who could not experience the radiance of Shoeshine. For if people cannot feel Shoeshine, what can they feel?... Later I learned that the man with whom I had quarreled had gone the same night and had also emerged in tears. Yet our tears for each other, and for Shoeshine did not bring us together. Life, as Shoeshine demonstrates, is too complex for facile endings.

Pauline Kael#7

Film criticismCinemaAlienationEmotionImpactRelationships

About this quote

What does it mean?
The author feels isolated after a quarrel because others cannot appreciate the depth of the film she loved.
In plain terms
I felt alone because people around me did not understand the movie's beauty.
What can you take from it?
Shared emotional experience with art can reveal disconnection in relationships.

Where it applies

  • after a movie
  • during relationship conflict
  • reflecting on art

Putting it to work

  • discuss film reactions with partners
  • recognize emotional disconnect

Questions to consider

  • When did you feel alone over art?
  • Do shared tastes matter in love?

Another view

The quote assumes the film itself is universally profound without objective proof.

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