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What does it mean?
Wisdom involves accepting inevitable realities without excessive resistance or words.
In plain terms
Accept what cannot be changed instead of trying to argue with it.
What can you take from it?
Focus energy on what you can control, not what you cannot.

Where it applies

  • facing terminal illness
  • dealing with bad weather
  • accepting loss

Putting it to work

  • practice non-resistance
  • focus on controllable factors

Questions to consider

  • What is one thing you must accept today?
  • How do you distinguish between acceptance and surrender?

Another view

Some situations require fighting back rather than passive acceptance.

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