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What does it mean?
Adjust your behavior to match the social environment you are in. Adaptability helps you blend in and avoid awkwardness.
In plain terms
Match your behavior to the people around you.
What can you take from it?
Adapt your behavior to fit your surroundings.

Where it applies

  • parties
  • work meetings
  • travel

Putting it to work

  • observe before speaking
  • mirror body language
  • read the room

Questions to consider

  • Do you change yourself around different groups?
  • How do you know when to adapt?

Another view

Constant adaptation can feel inauthentic if overused.

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