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It would be impossible to get through the kind of life that I have known without accumulating a vast unused stockpile of rage. Retaliation, though, was a luxury I could never afford. On the physical level I was too feeble. On any other I was not rich enough. I never dared to be rude to anyone. I never knew that I might not need him later. Long after fantasies of sexual excess had ceased to torment me, my imagination was inflamed by lurid day-dreams of having my revenge on the world.

Quentin Crisp#41

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About this quote

What does it mean?
Crisp describes how rage accumulates over a life of vulnerability, but he lacked power to act on it, leaving only daydreams of revenge.
In plain terms
He had lots of anger but no way to fight back, so he only imagined revenge.
What can you take from it?
Powerless people often hold anger in secret fantasies.

Where it applies

  • oppression
  • bullying
  • power imbalance

Putting it to work

  • recognize unexpressed anger
  • consider safe outlets

Questions to consider

  • How do people handle powerlessness?
  • Is fantasy a safe outlet for anger?

Another view

The focus on revenge fantasies ignores other coping methods.

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