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What does it mean?
Focusing on what you lost can blind you to what remains.
In plain terms
Grieving too much for what is gone can stop you from seeing the good that is still there.
What can you take from it?
Don't let grief cloud your view of remaining blessings.

Where it applies

  • dealing with loss
  • feeling hopeless

Putting it to work

  • shift focus from loss to gain
  • allow space for new perspectives

Questions to consider

  • What good might you be missing because of your grief?
  • How can you balance mourning and seeing hope?

Another view

Acknowledging loss is important; ignoring it isn't healthy either.

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