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What does it mean?
The author is not ashamed of his grandparents' past as slaves but is ashamed of having been ashamed of them. He recognizes the shame was misplaced.
In plain terms
I stopped being ashamed of my family's past slavery.
What can you take from it?
Do not feel shame for circumstances you cannot control.

Where it applies

  • family history
  • generational trauma
  • racial identity

Putting it to work

  • embracing heritage
  • letting go of shame

Questions to consider

  • What are you ashamed of?
  • Is that shame justified?

Another view

It takes time to overcome internalized societal stigma.

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