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What does it mean?
Love can be intensely painful yet deeply enjoyable at the same time.
In plain terms
You find this person both painful and wonderful.
What can you take from it?
Accept that deep affection often involves suffering.

Where it applies

  • romantic relationships
  • falling in love
  • heartbreak

Putting it to work

  • acknowledge mixed feelings
  • embrace complexity

Questions to consider

  • Is your love worth the pain?
  • What makes it delicious?

Another view

Not all torment is sweet or worth enduring.

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