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Society everywhere is in conspiracy against the manhood of every one of its members. Society is a joint-stock company, in which the members agree, for the better securing of his bread to each shareholder, to surrender the liberty and culture of the eater. The virtue in most request is conformity. Self-reliance is its aversion. It loves not realities and creators, but names and customs.

Ralph Waldo Emerson#92

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About this quote

What does it mean?
Society pressures individuals to conform, sacrificing their freedom and true self for security.
In plain terms
Society wants you to conform rather than be independent.
What can you take from it?
Resist societal pressure to maintain your independence.

Where it applies

  • peer pressure
  • workplace
  • creative fields

Putting it to work

  • stand alone
  • reject conformity
  • be a creator

Questions to consider

  • Where are you conforming too much?
  • What costs do you pay for independence?

Another view

Some level of conformity is necessary for social cooperation.

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