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What does it mean?
The things we fail to do or become define our existence as much as our actions.
In plain terms
Missing out on life experiences is a part of living.
What can you take from it?
Accept that what we miss shapes who we are.

Where it applies

  • self-help
  • philosophy
  • personal loss

Putting it to work

  • making peace with past
  • acceptance practice

Questions to consider

  • What have you missed that matters?
  • How do you live with regret?

Another view

It may discourage trying to avoid missed opportunities.

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