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if a girl likes me a lot and starts getting real nervous and suddenly begins asking me funny questions and looks sad if I give the wrong answers and she says things like, 'Do you think it's going to rain?' and I say, 'It beats me,' and she says, 'Oh,' and looks a little sad at the clear blue California sky, I think: Thank God, it's you, baby, this time Instead of me.

Richard Brautigan#6

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About this quote

What does it mean?
The speaker finds relief in noticing another person's nervousness rather than his own.
In plain terms
He is glad someone else is awkward instead of him.
What can you take from it?
Sharing awkwardness can be comforting.

Where it applies

  • dating
  • social interactions
  • self-reflection

Putting it to work

  • observing social cues
  • finding common ground

Questions to consider

  • Have you ever felt better knowing someone else was nervous?

Another view

It relies on subjective perception of others.

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