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What does it mean?
The speaker loves the person for their intrinsic qualities rather than external benefits.
In plain terms
I love him for who he is, not for what he gives me.
What can you take from it?
True love focuses on the person, not their utility.

Where it applies

  • romantic declaration
  • friendship
  • parental love

Putting it to work

  • focus on character
  • avoid transactional relationships

Questions to consider

  • Do you love for who they are or what they provide?
  • Is pure love possible?

Another view

It overlooks how context shapes our perception of someone.

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