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We are going to die, and that makes us the lucky ones. Most people are never going to die because they are never going to be born. The potential people who could have been here in my place but who will in fact never see the light of day outnumber the sand grains of Sahara. Certainly those unborn ghosts include greater poets than Keats, scientists greater than Newton. We know this because the set of possible people allowed by our DNA so massively outnumbers the set of actual people. In the teeth of these stupefying odds it is you and I, in our ordinariness, that are here.

Richard Dawkins#8

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About this quote

What does it mean?
Being born is an extremely rare statistical event, making existence a privilege compared to the vast number of people who will never exist.
In plain terms
It is lucky to be born because most potential people never exist.
What can you take from it?
Your existence is a statistical miracle worth appreciating.

Where it applies

  • finding perspective
  • dealing with regret
  • appreciating life

Putting it to work

  • reframe personal struggles
  • cultivate gratitude
  • discuss existence

Questions to consider

  • Why is being alive special?
  • How many possibilities are lost?

Another view

It does not account for suffering experienced by those who are born.

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