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What does it mean?
Making life too easy for children prevents them from developing resilience and problem-solving skills.
In plain terms
Don't make things too easy for your kids.
What can you take from it?
Challenge children to help them grow.

Where it applies

  • raising children
  • education
  • life skills

Putting it to work

  • allow failure
  • encourage independence
  • set challenges

Questions to consider

  • How much struggle is beneficial?
  • What skills come from hardship?

Another view

Some children may need more support due to disabilities or trauma.

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