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What does it mean?
Self-dislike prevents forming positive relationships with others.
In plain terms
You cannot like others if you do not like yourself.
What can you take from it?
Self-acceptance is key to liking others.

Where it applies

  • socializing
  • therapy
  • personal development

Putting it to work

  • build self-love
  • improve relationships

Questions to consider

  • Why is self-love important for others?
  • How do you like yourself?

Another view

Some people like others despite self-doubt.

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