'My words are nearly always an offense. I don't know how to speak of anything So as to please you. But I might be taught, I should suppose. I can't say I see how.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- He feels his words often offend and doesn't know how to please others, but hopes he can be taught.
- In plain terms
- He worries his speech offends and seeks guidance to improve.
- What can you take from it?
- Learning respectful communication is possible with effort.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- What makes words offensive?
- How can we balance authenticity with courtesy?
Another view
Some offenses stem from cultural differences, not just phrasing.
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