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What does it mean?
He feels his words often offend and doesn't know how to please others, but hopes he can be taught.
In plain terms
He worries his speech offends and seeks guidance to improve.
What can you take from it?
Learning respectful communication is possible with effort.

Where it applies

  • interpersonal skill building
  • conflict avoidance

Putting it to work

  • seek feedback
  • practice mindful language

Questions to consider

  • What makes words offensive?
  • How can we balance authenticity with courtesy?

Another view

Some offenses stem from cultural differences, not just phrasing.

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