Is it possible to conceive of anything more immoral than for a husband to insist on living with a wife who has no love for him? Is not this a perpetual crime? Is the wife to lose her personality? Has she no right of choice? Is her modesty the property of another? Is the man she hates the lord of her desire? Has she no right to guard the jewels of her soul? Is there a depth below this? And is this the foundation of morality? this the cornerstone of society? this the arch that supports the dome of civilization? Is this pathetic sacrifice on the one hand, this sacrilege on the other, pleasing in the sight of heaven?
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- The speaker argues forcing a spouse to stay with someone who does not love them is immoral and destructive.
- In plain terms
- Marriage without love is immoral.
- What can you take from it?
- Love is essential in marriage.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- Is love enough for marriage?
- Can duty replace love?
Another view
It may overlook cultural or practical constraints some face in marriage.
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