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What does it mean?
Love creates a bond of service and connection that makes individuals feel essential to one another.
In plain terms
Loving and being loved makes you feel needed and not useless.
What can you take from it?
Human connection gives life purpose and value.

Where it applies

  • comforting a friend
  • reflecting on relationships
  • feeling isolated

Putting it to work

  • express gratitude to loved ones
  • nurture friendships
  • recognize mutual value

Questions to consider

  • Who makes you feel indispensable?
  • Do you feel useful when you are loved?

Another view

The idea of being indispensable may create pressure on relationships.

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