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What does it mean?
The quote suggests that deep cultural or religious conditioning is required to overcome natural human impulses like instant romantic attraction.
In plain terms
It takes strong moral training to stop yourself from falling in love instantly.
What can you take from it?
Natural impulses are hard to control without strong values.

Where it applies

  • self control
  • relationship decisions
  • ethical training

Putting it to work

  • education
  • discipline
  • self improvement

Questions to consider

  • What instincts do you fight?
  • Is control always good?

Another view

Instincts are part of being human and may not need to be wiped out.

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