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You talk a great deal about building a better world for your children, but when you are young you can no more envision a world inherited by your children than you can conceive of dying. The society you mold, you mold for yourself. It was this way with my generation. We were unhappy with what we inherited and we tried to reshape it in ways that would make it more tolerable to us. You were not uppermost in our thoughts. Now, in middle age, some of us are trying to rewrite history. Some of us tell you, 'We labored and dared and sacrificed - all for you - yet we hear no thanks.' You will not be unduly moved, I hope, by these laments. They are sentimental cries from persons so attached to the society they have rebuilt that they cannot bear the thought of seeing it overhauled by new proprietors.

Russell Baker#36

SocietyGenerationsLegacyResentmentResponsibility

About this quote

What does it mean?
The quote argues that older generations shape society for themselves, not for future children, and resent being unappreciated for their efforts.
In plain terms
People build the world for themselves, not just for their kids, and feel unthanked.
What can you take from it?
Recognize that societal change is driven by current needs, not future expectations.

Where it applies

  • reflecting on legacy
  • discussing intergenerational responsibility

Putting it to work

  • evaluate personal motivations
  • communicate appreciation across ages

Questions to consider

  • How much of our work is for ourselves versus future generations?
  • Do we truly understand the sacrifices of previous generations?

Another view

It may overlook genuine altruistic motives of older generations.

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