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What does it mean?
Memory is dangerous but avoiding it invites it to return.
In plain terms
Memories kill but you must think of them to avoid them coming back.
What can you take from it?
Avoiding memories invites them back.

Where it applies

  • grief
  • trauma
  • mental health

Putting it to work

  • facing painful memories
  • accepting the past

Questions to consider

  • Is avoidance ever useful?
  • How do you manage bad memories?

Another view

It presents memory as inherently dangerous rather than neutral.

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