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What does it mean?
Emotional distress is suppressed by social norms, turning cries for help into polite speech.
In plain terms
Pain is masked by politeness.
What can you take from it?
Social norms can hide real pain.

Where it applies

  • social settings
  • grief
  • professional environments

Putting it to work

  • asserting needs
  • seeking therapy
  • practicing honesty

Questions to consider

  • How do you show pain?
  • When do you hide feelings?

Another view

It overlooks those who do cry out.

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