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What does it mean?
Distractions during fresh grief are ineffective; time is needed before amusement helps.
In plain terms
Wait until grief settles before trying to have fun.
What can you take from it?
Grief needs time to process.

Where it applies

  • bereavement
  • loss
  • mourning

Putting it to work

  • allow time
  • delay distraction

Questions to consider

  • How do you cope with loss?
  • Is time the best healer?

Another view

Some find immediate distraction helpful.

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