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What does it mean?
Allowing friendships to fade through neglect is unwise and wastes a major source of comfort in life.
In plain terms
Don't let friendships die from ignoring them; they are too important to lose.
What can you take from it?
Actively maintain friendships to avoid losing vital emotional support.

Where it applies

  • long-distance relationships
  • busy schedules
  • drifting apart

Putting it to work

  • schedule regular check-ins
  • reach out to old friends

Questions to consider

  • When did you last check on an old friend?
  • What stops you from maintaining contacts?

Another view

Sometimes distance or change makes maintaining contact impossible despite efforts.

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