No man is much pleased with a companion, who does not increase, in some respect, his fondness for himself.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- People prefer companions who make them feel more fond of themselves.
- In plain terms
- People like friends who make them feel better about themselves.
- What can you take from it?
- Seek company that affirms your self worth.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- Do you seek validation in friends?
- How do you make others feel good?
Another view
It reduces relationships to ego validation rather than mutual growth.
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