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What does it mean?
Johnson says life's joy is variety, and love needs renewal through periods of absence.
In plain terms
Variety brings joy; love benefits from occasional distance.
What can you take from it?
Change and space keep relationships fresh.

Where it applies

  • relationship counseling
  • personal growth

Putting it to work

  • schedule breaks together
  • embrace new experiences

Questions to consider

  • How much absence is healthy?
  • What role does novelty play in happiness?

Another view

Too much distance can weaken bonds.

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