Communication is - start by understanding - your own understanding about people. Even though you want them to understand you, you know, it is - unless you understand people, it is almost impossible. Don't you think so? Only when you understand people, they may understand you. So even though you do not say anything, if you understand people there is some communication.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Effective communication starts with understanding others; without that, being understood is unlikely.
- In plain terms
- You must understand people first to be understood.
- What can you take from it?
- Focus on empathy before trying to convey your point.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- How can I improve my empathy in conversations?
- What barriers prevent mutual understanding?
Another view
Understanding others can be difficult and may not guarantee they will understand you.
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