The only thing about masturbation to be ashamed of is doing it badly.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Shame should not come from the act itself but from performing it poorly.
- In plain terms
- You should only feel bad if you do it wrong.
- What can you take from it?
- Focus on skill rather than morality in private acts.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- What actions do you feel ashamed of regardless of quality?
- Is competence more important than intent?
Another view
It ignores moral or religious views that condemn the act entirely.
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