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To listen to someone is to put oneself in his place while he is speaking. To put oneself in the place of someone whose soul is corroded by affliction, or in near danger of it, is to annihilate oneself. It is more difficult than suicide would be for a happy child. Therefore the afflicted are not listened to. They are like someone whose tongue has been cut out and who occasionally forgets the fact. When they move their lips no ear perceives any sound. And they themselves soon sink into impotence in the use of language, because of the certainty of not being heard. That is why there is no hope for the vagrant as he stands before the magistrate. Even if, through his stammerings, he should utter a cry to pierce the soul, neither the magistrate nor the public will hear it. His cry is mute. And the afflicted are nearly always equally deaf to one another; and each of them, constrained by the general indifference, strives by means of self-delusion or forgetfulness to become deaf to his own self. [p.71]

Simone Weil#25

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About this quote

What does it mean?
Listening to the afflicted requires self-annihilation, which is why they are often ignored.
In plain terms
We ignore suffering because listening hurts too much.
What can you take from it?
Listen even if it costs you yourself.

Where it applies

  • legal proceedings
  • personal relationships

Putting it to work

  • practice deep listening

Questions to consider

  • How do we hear the voiceless?

Another view

Complete self-annihilation may not be the only way to listen.

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