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What does it mean?
True attention to a sufferer is rare; emotional warmth alone is not enough.
In plain terms
Pity is not the same as paying attention.
What can you take from it?
Give real attention to those who suffer.

Where it applies

  • caring for others
  • mental health

Putting it to work

  • listen deeply

Questions to consider

  • What does true attention look like?

Another view

Warmth and impulse are often necessary starting points.

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