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What does it mean?
A life filled with fight and laughter ends with humanity even if it ends in death, unlike a life marked by fear and despair.
In plain terms
People who fight for their life and laugh until the end leave with more humanity than those who die in fear.
What can you take from it?
Value the courage and dignity shown in life over the mere outcome of death.

Where it applies

  • grief support
  • end of life care
  • reflection

Putting it to work

  • supporting patients
  • honoring the deceased

Questions to consider

  • What defines a life lived well?
  • How do we measure the quality of a life?

Another view

Not everyone has the capacity to fight or laugh in the face of terminal illness.

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