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She was a grown up now, and she discovered that being a grown up was not quite what she had suspected it would be when she was a child. She had thought then that she would make a conscious decision one day to simply put her toys and games and little make-believes away. Now she discovered that was not what happened at all. Instead, she discovered, interest simply faded. It became less and less and less, until a dust of years drew over the bright pleasures of childhood, and they were forgotten.

Stephen King#104

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About this quote

What does it mean?
Adulthood arrives not by choice but by fading interest in childhood joys.
In plain terms
Growing up happens slowly without choice.
What can you take from it?
Adulthood fades slowly.

Where it applies

  • aging
  • nostalgia
  • family

Putting it to work

  • reflect
  • cherish time
  • adapt

Questions to consider

  • When did you feel grown up?
  • What childhood joy faded?

Another view

Some choose adulthood actively.

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