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What does it mean?
Genuine friendship requires equal standing between parties.
In plain terms
You can't be friends without being equal.
What can you take from it?
Equality is necessary for true friendship.

Where it applies

  • workplace dynamics
  • personal relationships
  • partnerships

Putting it to work

  • seek equal relationships
  • question power imbalances

Questions to consider

  • Are your friendships equal?
  • How do you handle power?

Another view

Some relationships function with clear hierarchical structures.

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