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If there are sound reasons or bases for the points you demand, then there is no need for violence. On the other hand, when there is no sound reason that concessions should be made to you but mainly your own desire, then reason cannot work and you have to rely on force. Thus using force is not a sign of strength but rather a sign of weakness.

Tenzin Gyatso#67

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About this quote

What does it mean?
Force is used when there is no logical basis for demands. Relying on force shows weakness, not strength.
In plain terms
Use reason if you have good arguments. Using force means you lack logic.
What can you take from it?
Force indicates a lack of rational justification.

Where it applies

  • political protests
  • negotiations
  • disputes

Putting it to work

  • build solid arguments
  • avoid coercion

Questions to consider

  • Why do people resort to force?
  • Is weakness always visible?

Another view

History shows force is sometimes used when reason is ignored by others.

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