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What does it mean?
Experiencing sorrow teaches one to empathize with others' pain.
In plain terms
Personal grief becomes a lesson in compassion for others.
What can you take from it?
Use your own pain to understand and help others.

Where it applies

  • comforting others
  • self-reflection

Putting it to work

  • support groups
  • mentoring

Questions to consider

  • How has your pain helped others?
  • What lessons did your sorrow teach you?

Another view

Not everyone responds to grief with empathy.

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