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What does it mean?
If everyone showed their true souls and desires, the marketplace would be full of visible anger, anxiety, and hidden emotions.
In plain terms
If people showed their true feelings, public spaces would be full of distress and conflict.
What can you take from it?
People hide strong emotions to keep peace.

Where it applies

  • observing crowds
  • feeling socially anxious
  • considering honesty

Putting it to work

  • practicing vulnerability
  • reducing social judgment

Questions to consider

  • Would society be better if everyone was honest?
  • What emotions do you hide in public?

Another view

It assumes most people are hiding negative emotions rather than just private ones.

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