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What does it mean?
The speaker describes a woman who believes anything can happen due to time and chance, except fairness.
In plain terms
She looks tired and thinks anything can happen, but she does not expect fairness.
What can you take from it?
Life is unpredictable, but fairness is often missing.

Where it applies

  • dealing with loss
  • observing others
  • personal struggle

Putting it to work

  • building resilience
  • managing expectations
  • supporting others

Questions to consider

  • Do you expect life to be fair?
  • How do you react when it isn't?

Another view

Assuming fairness will never happen can lead to learned helplessness.

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