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What does it mean?
A woman avoids society entirely, seeing the collective world as terrifying but individual units as pitiable.
In plain terms
She avoids people because the group feels scary, though individuals are weak.
What can you take from it?
Fear of the collective can lead to total isolation.

Where it applies

  • social withdrawal
  • loneliness
  • human perception

Putting it to work

  • balance solitude and connection
  • recognize individual humanity

Questions to consider

  • Is the crowd scarier than people?
  • Can we fear groups but not individuals?

Another view

It simplifies social anxiety to fear of the mass.

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