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Self-interest, or rather self-love, or egoism, has been more plausibly substituted as the basis of morality. But I consider our relations with others as constituting the boundaries of morality. With ourselves, we stand on the ground of identity, not of relation, which last, requiring two subjects, excludes self-love confined to a single one. To ourselves, in strict language, we can owe no duties, obligation requiring also two parties. Self-love, therefore, is no part of morality. Indeed, it is exactly its counterpart.

Thomas Jefferson#79

MoralityEthicsVirtueDutySelfSelf love

About this quote

What does it mean?
Jefferson argues morality requires relations between two parties, making self-love its counterpart rather than a moral foundation.
In plain terms
Morality involves duties to others, not just love of oneself.
What can you take from it?
Duty requires another person to be meaningful.

Where it applies

  • moral philosophy
  • self-reflection
  • virtue ethics

Putting it to work

  • consider duties to others
  • define morality

Questions to consider

  • Is morality social or individual?
  • Can you owe duties to yourself?

Another view

Some ethical systems do prioritize self-care as a virtue.

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