Love is the ultimate outlaw. It just won't adhere to any rules. The most any of us can do is to sign on as its accomplice. Instead of vowing to honor and obey, maybe we should swear to aid and abet. That would mean that security is out of the question. The words 'make' and 'stay' become inappropriate. My love for you has no strings attached. I love you for free.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Love defies rules and security; it requires aiding it without expecting to make or stay with someone.
- In plain terms
- Love is free and follows no rules, so just support it without conditions.
- What can you take from it?
- Love without strings or promises to control the other person.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- What rules do you impose on love?
- Can you love without expecting anything back?
Another view
Some security and commitment are necessary for stable long-term relationships.
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