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What does it mean?
Capote offers a witty, somewhat dismissive definition of a gay man based on physical absence.
In plain terms
Capote defines a gay man as someone who just left the room.
What can you take from it?
Witty definitions can mask deeper social tensions.

Where it applies

  • social observation
  • writing dialogue
  • discussing identity

Putting it to work

  • using humor for identity
  • questioning labels

Questions to consider

  • What is a fair way to describe identity?
  • When does humor cross a line?

Another view

It reduces identity to a joke.

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