'More tears are shed for answered prayers than for unanswered ones.' (The dedication in his last, unfinished work)
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- People often regret or suffer more from outcomes they hoped for that did not turn out well than from things they never expected.
- In plain terms
- Disappointment hurts more when you expected a good result.
- What can you take from it?
- Manage expectations to avoid deeper disappointment.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- Why do we hope so hard?
- How do we handle letdowns?
Another view
Unanswered prayers can also cause deep suffering.
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