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If every day a man takes orders in silence from an incompetent superior, if every day he solemnly performs ritual acts which he privately finds ridiculous, if he unhesitatingly gives answers to questionnaires which are contrary to his real opinions and is prepared to deny his own self in public, if he sees no difficulty in feigning sympathy or even affection where, in fact, he feels only indifference or aversion, it still does not mean that he has entirely lost the use of one of the basic human senses, namely, the sense of humiliation.

Vaclav Havel#4

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About this quote

What does it mean?
Compliance with absurd orders or public hypocrisy does not erase one's sense of humiliation.
In plain terms
Even if you follow silly rules, you still know when you are being humiliated.
What can you take from it?
People retain dignity and awareness even in oppressive compliance.

Where it applies

  • totalitarian regimes
  • workplace culture
  • personal integrity

Putting it to work

  • recognize subtle oppression
  • maintain inner truth
  • avoid self-denial

Questions to consider

  • How do you know you are humiliated?
  • Can silence be resistance?

Another view

Long-term compliance can eventually numb the sense of humiliation.

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