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What does it mean?
Self-confidence allows listening, acceptance, and forgiveness, whereas pride prevents these.
In plain terms
Being confident makes you listen to others, while pride makes you ignore them.
What can you take from it?
True confidence enables humility and forgiveness.

Where it applies

  • personal relationships
  • diplomacy
  • leadership

Putting it to work

  • cultivate confidence over pride
  • practice forgiveness

Questions to consider

  • Is there a difference between pride and confidence?
  • How do you forgive enemies?

Another view

Too much confidence can sometimes lead to arrogance.

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