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If one keeps loving faithfully what is really worth loving, and does not waste one's love on insignificant and unworthy and meaningless things, one will get more light by and by and grow stronger. Sometimes it is well to go into the world and converse with people, and at times one is obliged to do so, but he who would prefer to be quietly alone with his work, and who wants but very few friends, will go safest through the world and among people. And even in the most refined circles and with the best surroundings and circumstances, one must keep something of the original character of an anchorite, for other wise one has no root in oneself; one must never let the fire go out in one's soul, but keep it burning. And whoever chooses poverty for himself and loves it possesses a great treasure, and will always clearly hear the voice of his conscience; he who hears and obeys that voice, which is the best gift of God, finds at least a friend in it, and is never alone.

Vincent Van Gogh#53

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About this quote

What does it mean?
Focusing love on what truly matters strengthens character, while maintaining solitude and inner integrity protects against losing oneself in society.
In plain terms
Love what is important and keep some solitude to stay true to yourself.
What can you take from it?
Protect your inner values by limiting distractions and staying true to yourself.

Where it applies

  • social pressure
  • career choices
  • personal relationships

Putting it to work

  • prioritize meaningful work
  • limit social distractions
  • listen to conscience

Questions to consider

  • What do you love that is worth your time?
  • How do you protect your values?

Another view

Complete isolation may not be necessary for everyone to maintain integrity.

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