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What does it mean?
Woolf warns that literature is full of examples of people ruined by caring too much about what others think.
In plain terms
Many people ruin their lives by worrying too much about other people's opinions.
What can you take from it?
Do not let others opinions destroy your potential.

Where it applies

  • writing
  • career choice
  • personal development

Putting it to work

  • setting boundaries
  • ignoring critics
  • focusing on self

Questions to consider

  • Whose opinions do you mind?
  • How has judgment affected you?

Another view

Not all opinion of others are harmful; some are constructive.

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